Making Legacy a Lifestyle, Not just an Inheritance.
We help families thrive across generations with tools, guided frameworks, and culturally rooted practices that keep legacy alive while we're still here.
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Begin with your Legacy Snapshot—a quick 3–5 minute assessment that reveals where you are on your legacy journey.
Take the Legacy SnapshotLegacy, made real across 3 dimensions.
At In the Room with Legacy, legacy isn't abstract. It's lived. Measured through tools, protected through conversations, and expressed through culture.
The Tool
Our digital tools help you understand your legacy landscape. Start with your Legacy Snapshot and, after receiving your results, request early access to NIA, our beta AI companion designed to support families through assessment, documentation, and preparation.
Get Your Legacy SnapshotThe Program
While We're Still Here™ is our guided foundational experience. Built on the IRL Legacy Framework, it helps families capture stories, align values, and strengthen relationships while they can still ask the questions that matter.
Learn MoreThe Community
A curated network for family business professionals — the founders, successors, and multigenerational stewards leading family enterprises across generations.
Learn MoreWho This is For
Whether you're a founder building something sacred, an inheritor navigating stewardship, a family creating alignment, cousins building collective value — or you're simply being called back to roots — IRL is for you.
Founders
First-generation wealth and legacy builders creating a foundation.
Inheritors & Heirs
Those preparing to receive or steward family assets and traditions.
Families Building Together
Multi-generational families creating shared legacy.
Collective Builders
Chosen family and kin creating community-based legacy.
Curious Seekers
Individuals exploring family history and legacy concepts.
Partners & Institutions
Funders, advisors, and aligned organizations.
Rooted in legacy, built for the future.
In the Room with Legacy™ was born from a sacred lived experience.
When founder Lauren Rosa Miller walked alongside her father through the final chapter of his life, she witnessed what it truly means to pass the baton. Not just property or possessions, but purpose, love, and responsibility.
Through that journey, Lauren saw how much families can gain, and lose, in the silence between generations. She also recognized that legacy isn't luck or wealth alone; it's structure, intention, and the courage to move as a family on purpose.
What began as a deeply personal awakening became a framework for others — helping families preserve their stories, align their values, and build systems that carry blessings forward with discipline and love.
She is also the architect behind the IRL Legacy Framework and the creator of NIA, the beta version of IRL's emerging Legacy Operating System.
Legacy isn't just inherited — it's built, lived, and sustained together.
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